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New Councellor

2009-12-02T18:32:00.002+08:00

Dear all,
As of today we have a new councellor by the name of ~* ĶũΣăŔ ПАНДА*~*26*~™~
He is very muched experienced in councelling teenagers and Relationship problems.
Do look forward to more posts from us as a team~

Posted by Chaos

friends, best friends, brotherhoob/sisterhood

2009-10-12T00:40:00.002+08:00

dear all,
those who are older should agree with this post.

there is a diference in friends, best friends and brothers/sisters.
friends can ange from ordinary friends to classmates. BUT, you ain much close to them, don't think of them when you need help and stuff.

best friends however, are friends who will look for you just to say hi and accompany you when u need someone. however, they might not always/even risk their life for you.

brother/ sisters have 2 catagories.
1. those who are linked religiously
this kind too, might not always/risk their life for you as they just see you as a "hi-bye firend" which falls under the "friends" catagory but they just have a different name.

2. those who are linked by blood/prolonged friendship
...By blood relationship
this are those who have a very high chance of risking their life for you IF, you have a very good relationship with them. the reason, because you have already become a part of their life.

...By prolong friendship
this may/may not risk their life for you as they consider you as an "bbf"(bestest best friend) in life, but you ain such a significant part of their life. they would also try to include you in things that they do. this, however, does not means that friends from a very long time ago is included as it only applies to those whome you have a very good realationship with.

this is just a brief understanding of friendship. IT IS NOT A FULL EXPLANATION!

late replies

2009-10-05T12:10:00.002+08:00

hi all once again~

sorry for the lack of updates. i've been busy working.
here are the replies.

Dear Ivan,
liking a girl does not means that you are in love. it just means that you are Infatuated by her. being in love is a two-way thing. youcan't say you are in love if the other party does not acknowledge it. so my advice to you is to comfirm that that is the right girl. once you are comfirmed, look out for signs that she is feeling the same way about you. if she does not show any signs, then start making friends with her and break the ice. if she does, then let nature take its course. if nature don't, them make your own course!

Dear Channel,
i was always thie great.... LOL!!! i'm jus joking... hahahs =P

Dear kerlynn,
this ideas? oh, from experience and studies. =]

Dear Jian hui,
lol... there is no tricks, jus ways to get it. different people have different ways of getting to their target. it is jus a matter of how u do it.

dear LCH

2009-09-03T20:48:00.002+08:00

Dear LCH,
Getting a girl's number aboard a MRT(Mass Rapid Transit) is neither hard nor easy.
simply say, start a conversation first, let her relax first. by doing this you break her barrier of defence towards a stranger, then you introduce yourself to her. but you still need a conversation as you base. if not, you most probablly can't get her number(unless you are some celebrity). after you have gotten her number, the work does not stop. give a an sms on the spot like,"i'm happy to be your new found friend!" or "keep in touch often". main point of the sms is to let her know that you are a nice guy! and at all cost, NO TOUCHING!!! then sms her after you have left and day after day after day... so on so forth... that is roughly all you have to do. after that is decided by YOU!

Parental Issues

2009-08-25T23:41:00.003+08:00

I've been hearing many people complaining about their parents recently.
they were complaining about how THEIR parents "ill treat" them,
how they punish them "EVERYDAY" and NAG NON-STOP.
many more to list.

however, if it were not for them, will you all be in this world?
would you all even be in school? mixing around with your "friends"?

the answer is no actually.
No parent wish to see their children suffer.
you all might say "YAH, LIKE REAL! YOu just don't know my parents!" or something like that.

fact is, I do to a certain extend!
you see, many of our parents have the concept that as the child you have to submit to them. this is true to a certain extend because as a child, you will need to show them an amount of respect and honor. and at all times, you NEED TO RESPECT THEM IN ORDER FOR THEM TO RESPECT YOU!

And EVEN if they say, "YOU CAN DIE FOR ALL I CARE!!!", they don't mean a single bit of it. IN FACT, they WANTS TO KNOW IF YOU ARE OK 24/7!!!! they worry and panic for you because of just one thing, THEY LOVE YOU! if they don't why bother to have you in the first place?!?!?!
yes yes i know that you may feel that their way of loving you is wrong.

if possible, GIVE THEM A FEW POINTERS.
1, its better to have a FRIEND TO FRIEND relationship rather then MASTER TO SERVANT! this will provide more bonding time and allow you to be more oven to them.

2, TRUST YOUR PARENTS!!! there is no reason WHY they will cheat on you. its just stupid!

3, GET THEM TO SPENT MORE TIME WITH YOU RATHER THEN NAG NON-STOP! its better then blabbing right?

4, DO NOT LIE to them!!!! This will breah their TRUST in you thus causing you to have leser freedom.

5, NO FAMILY IS PERFECT!!! solve this by siting down after a conflict, be polite and say sorry to them, explain to them too for, whatever happened, and reconsile with each other.

any problems or troubles? e-mail me at Shout.For.Help@live.com

yours faithfully
Chaos

Dear etjh

2009-08-19T19:37:00.002+08:00

Dear etjh,
first of all, i will say it is entirelly your fault for not attending school and getting debarred from school examinations. and you even said you want to hire a bohmo to put a curse on your lecturer?!?!?! YOU CHOSED not to attend class. youcaused yourself to be debarred. the teacher is only doing his job. whats wrong is YOU!

getting a bohmo to put a curse is EXTREAMLY CHILDISH, STUPID AND NIAVE!!!
puting a curse is not as easy as you think. you need give up something important for it to work. whats more, u want to take revenge. do you think it is GLORIOUS?!?!?! and you boast about it?
SURE YOU CAN!!! but people view about you will become very LOUSY!

My advice to you is to put the truth and explain to your lecturer your reasons. DO NOT try to make an attempt to lie as lecturers are not the same in college and secondary schools. they can tell lies from truths! so put the TRUTH! they will be more lighter on the sentence. Second is to CHANGE YOUR HABIT! if they let you off this time and you still continue you bad habits, next time won't be easier a single bit! so change and GO TO SCHOOL!!! STUDY HARD, PLAY HARD!!! and stay away form bad company.

~chaos~

sick of bullying

2009-08-17T20:45:00.005+08:00

Dear sick of bullying,
In the event of backstabbing, do not be sad as it is very common. It is ok if it was a normal friend who backstabbed you. All you have to do is just to learn from it and move along. This however is not easy if you have a hard-hearted attitude as you will not be able to forgive and would most of the time think of revenge and stuff like that (Statement based on experience). There for i urge you to learn to loosen up and relax, you still have 2 arms and 2 feets, still alive and moving? so MOVE ALONG! ingnore that guy, don't talk to him, whatever! as long as you learn from your mistake and avoid friends like that, because most likely the backstabbing they done to you will not be the last they do.

HOWEVER, if it is more then a normal friend(eg: Boy/Girlfriends, Spouses, ETC), you will need to take apporpriate action. Lets say in the case where your Boy/Girlfriend Doubled-Timed you, my advice is break-up. No matter what you do in-between(slap him/her, cold shoulder, blah blah blah...), just break-up in the end as he/she will most probablly do it again just that they will be more careful not to get caught. Whats more, MOVE ALONG! No point sobing over someone who betrayed you. Yes you can cry, but don't cry for extended hours(Eg: 4hrs straight!). not only you will hurt yourself, you might even go blind! And NEVER EVER THINK OF SUICIDE!!! ITS STUPID TO END YOUR LIFE OVER STUFF LIKE THAT!!!!

Summary, MOVE ALONG!

2009-08-16T15:57:00.001+08:00

ok... i am thinking of changing my blog to a help blog
a place where people can come as an anonymous person and ask for help
why?
because many people have problems and got nowhere to shout it out.
bottled up too long will cause them to do stupid things in the end.
i want to help people in need. especially in times hardship.

Oh and don't worry
i WILL practise professionalism and will protect your identity at ALL cost.
however i'll reply through my postings unless you request it not to be posted.

Updates will be posted on a week by week basis and replies will be sent ASAP.

Yours Sincerely
Chaos

Species Of Singaporean

2009-01-07T22:44:00.004+08:00

Typical Singaporean Species

1. Chinese "paikias"
The ones that has no creativity in using their insults thus repeating thesame vulgarities and the old catchphrase: "not happy ah?" they join gangswith stupid names like 369 and 18 and ang soon thong. their dress senseis horrible and alot of it shows their taiwanese wannabes but with a dashof the style was stolen from scene/emo (the real ones) people. USUALLY immature around 13-16 years old.
Habitat: orchard, plaza sing, bugis.
Music: chinese pop, fall out boy, good charlotte, simple plan( the pop stuffwhich is very ironic as they act fierce but listen to pop stuff)

2. Malay gangster
very similar to the chinese paikias in terms on catchphrases and fashion sensedo not confuse malay gangsters with the malay scene/emo kids who actuallyreally know what music is all about. smokes like the chinese paikias. USUALLY around 13-16,.
Habitat: orchard, plaza sing, city plaza, bugis.
Music: malay music, hiphop, sometimes pop-rock.

3. REAL "ah-bengs"
Thats right. they are NOWHERE between 13-16 and they dont go to schooland yet act uneducated. these are the REAL gangsters that the chinese wannabe youths try to imitate. they dont have the copied-from-emo hairstylebut have their hair all spiked up sometimes in a ponytail, sometimes bald.they wear gold chains and not skinny jeans/bugis bought stuff. NOT to beconfused with hiphop-wannabes. they dont know much english compared to the chinese fakes.
Habitat: bukit batok, ang mokio, etc. (but fake chinese paikias tend togo there too)
Music: ???

4. Nerds
Self-explonatory. the type that studies and have ugly looks.
Habitat: home, school.
Music: literally non.

5. The Do-It-All preps.
They can study, they go out to watch movies, they ride bikes, they swim,they bowl. they Do-it-all. yet get good grades. their fashion may besimilar to the paikias but oh, well. you cant blame singaporeans from imitating one another.
Habitat: orchard, cathay, anywhere thats "hip"
Music: mixture of chinese-pop, english-pop etc. sometimes hip-hop

6. REAL scene/emo kids
A really rare species. wears band-tshirts thats NOT MCR. my chemical romanceshirts are worn by fake emos. they dont wear bright colored skinnies likethe fakes and the paikias. they do rock scarves too. and studded belts is a must.
Habitat: only a few exist in this comformity country so ???
Music: real emo music definitely not mcr, fake out boy, etc.

7. REAL hip-hop kids.
They dont have the copycat hairstyles and dont wear the hats with the netthing by the back like those stupid paikias/malaygangsters. they wear NYhats and baggy clothes. and despises anyone thats fake hip-hop. (see also:the 2 breeds of "gangsters")
Habitat: orchard (the most)
Music: ja rule, the game, 36 mafia etc.

8. Uncles/Old-Men They hate lee kuan yew. they hate PAP. and yet they cant do shiat about it.except complaining to their friends at coffeeshops and smoking and drinkingcoffee. a boring group. suprisingly, their female counterparts dont do this alot
Habitat: coffeeshops (have to be low class)
music: hokkien song.

9. Game-Maniacs
These are the people that made asiasoft and lanshops rich. give them 50$ and they get 40K @cash. they play dota all day long and get angry when someone ** their kill.
Habitat: PC bunk. at home in front of their computers
Music: dota Background music, maple background music.

10. Jocks (sports people)
They wear anything thats adidas and nikes. if their poor, they wear fakes. They stay up late just to watch the world cup.and they play soccer, basketball. you get the idea
Habitat: Community clubs playing badminton. Soccer fields. Swimming pools.
Music: depends.
NOTE: both applies to female/males. so theres no discrimination